Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Rusty, cuz’ I’ll see you soon. I miss you so much. You would have had such a wonderful life it it wasn’t taken away so soon. It should have been me.., IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ME! Not you, never you. You were too good for this world. I’m coming to see you soon. I’ll make things fair and right. It’s taken too long…. As you knew I would. I love you to eternity and back.

Amber Shaw
Cousin

September 18, 2025

I love you cuz. I’m coming. And I’ll make things right. You were the best. I love you to eternity and back and will do what needs to be done.

Cousin
Cousin

September 18, 2025

Not forgotten

PDB
Clayton County PD

March 31, 2025

Hey brother. Miss you.

Patrolman T.R.Coxe
Atlanta police

October 14, 2024

Rusty,

You were on my mind all day yesterday, as I celebrated Easter with my loved ones. I think you're the luckiest, as you are with the risen Lord! I still think of you often, and miss you. Thank you for the times that our stories overlapped. Thank you for the memories. And thank you for being you.

Anonymous
A friend

April 1, 2024

It's always ironic when your day meshes with Easter. You are thought of and missed everyday.

Anon
Anon

March 31, 2024

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Rusty! We love you and miss you always.

Robby, Cathy, Georgia, & Gracyn

December 8, 2023

Hey Rusty,

I apologize for not leaving a tribute to you sooner. I did not know you well; however, we worked together a few times prior to me leaving APD. I wanted you and your family to know that you were an exceptional Police Officer and a great guy with an awesome since of humor. Rest in Peace and you are not forgotten.

Darrion L. Eshmon
Former APD

September 7, 2023

Happy Heavenly Birthday Rusty. Praying for those who miss and love you today as they remember you on your 48th birthday…

Diane
Mother in law

December 8, 2022

Happy Birthday, Rusty! I visited your grave last week with my daughter. My children know you well, just as they would have if that night in March hadn't happened.

Anonymous
Friend

December 8, 2021

❤
Thinking of you today, Rusty. Praying for Dana and your parents and brothers as they remember another Wednesday 22 years ago.

Carla E Gilreath

March 31, 2021

Still in our hearts, always on our minds. We remember you

Anonymous
APD

March 31, 2020

Twenty-one years have passed since you left us all. Your memory is alive and well. Your kindness and silliness is remembered on this day and throughout the year. We miss you and all the memories we never got to make. I cherish the ones we do have.

Anonymous
A friend

March 31, 2020

Rest in peace Officer Stalnaker.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

March 28, 2020

We miss you, sweet friend.

Robby & Cathy

December 9, 2019

Officer Stalnaker,
On today, the 20th anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of Atlanta. And to your Family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

BPA Mike Casey
United States Border Patrol
El Paso Station

March 31, 2019

Miss you.

Anonymous
Anonymous

December 28, 2018

I met your sweet momma today for the very first time. She spoke of you and it touched my mother's heart. My brother is a L.E.O. We feel her pain. She is so proud of you and she misses her best friend/lunch partner. Just as we miss our friend, Ricky Cash who lost his life in the line of duty. We know we will see you again one day. Save us a place. I am going to visit your sweet mother tomorrow and take her some flowers from you. I hope you approve. Much love to you and your family. Rest Easy.

Hensley Family
LEO Family

December 14, 2017

So, today I was cleaning out a drawer and came across the poem I wrote after you passed away. Then, I scrolled over your page on my favorites and wanted to spend a few minutes just hearing how others love and miss you too. So, I figured I'd share the poem I wrote so very long ago
The Fight
by Allison Roberts (Hammond)
A life that was given,
Fighting the fight,
Fighting for everything,
Everything that was right.

A life that was taken that one dark night
Because he continued, continued to fight
For the things that he knew,
The things that were right.

A fight that was won,
In the end,
Because he was loved
By his family and friends.

He was loved not only by those that he knew
But also by those that were watching the news.
When the flash came in that an officer had been shot,
The whole city and state went into shock.

When an officer came to tell the other half of his heart
His true love said, "There goes my heart."
The world she knew had been torn apart.
With a heart torn in pieces she sought peace for her heart.

His parents and brothers were torn apart too,
For this officer was not just someone they knew
He was someone his parents could always count on,
He was strength his brothers could count on too.

They all continue to fight the fight
That fight for which their loved one had given his life,
To protect the innocent and give them their rights,
To allow them to live in the day and sleep at night.

This man had a reason, a reason to fight
He knew his Heavenly Father, the one True Light,
The Light of Jesus and His Father's Might,
Gave him the courage, the courage to fight.

Rusty Stalnaker- My dad still talks about you every time we deep sea fish. I still think about you every March and whenever we do a Vacation Bible School-because you were one of the greatest leaders there was!
Rusty's family- you are all near and dear to my heart.

Friend

November 2, 2016

Rusty,

It's been 17 years now without you. It seems like last week I saw you last. You still visit in my dreams. My children know you, even though they came after you left. Your memory is alive and well and we will always remember you.

Anonymous
A Friend

March 31, 2016

Rusty, today you were remembered and honored when the bell rang when your name was called in City Hall. Even though 16 years have come and gone when I think of you or drive by Pine Street silent tears flow no words can I speak to ease the pain and hurt felt by so many still today. RIP

Diane Askew
mother in law

May 5, 2015

'Yes, when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease;
I shall possess, within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.'

My Rusty, we love you so very much, and one day soon, we will all be together again within the veil.

Capt. Ron T. Shaw
Uncle / Atlanta Police Dept. (retiree)

April 12, 2014

We haven't forgotten. You are always a part of us. So many people still miss you still love and will forever remember you.

Anon

April 1, 2014

A Poem For My Son
Forever In My Heart

I mourn the years,
but no one cares.
I wipe the tears, that
never dry.
I scream the words of,
WHY, WHY, WHY?

There is no peace of
which I can find.
I hold such a tragic
picture in my mind.

He's gone from my life,
He's out of all sight.
I hold all memories
in my heart so tight.

I miss his smiles, his
laugh, and his humor.
I know the longer he's
gone my memory grows
dimmer.

Help me Lord, for I
miss him so.
Help me Lord, your the
only one who can know.

Hug him in Heaven
for me today, Tell him
I'll see him soon in
your time, I pray.

Love forever,
Moma

Mrs.Linda Stalnaker
Mother

April 1, 2014

On today, Rusty, you are in so many memories. We're still mourning our loss, but remembering to laugh and celebrate our good fortune to have you as part of our lives. Fifteen years, and the tears come just as easily today, as does the laughter.

A Friend
Always

March 31, 2014